Transgender dating sounds difficult and daunting but it doesn’t have to be. If you want to have a much easier time creating relationships with trans women, we have prepared some tips for you.
Just listen to her
When you start going on transgender dates, you should keep in mind that it’s not your job to fix her problems. Trans women have everyday struggles because of who they are, and need someone who will be there for them. When your girl tells you about her problems, don’t offer your solutions. Firstly, you have no idea how she feels, and secondly she probably just wants to be heard. So listen to her, validate how she feels and empathize with her situation.
When you are transexual dating discus with your potential partner what your deal breakers are. Don’t worry, it won’t chase the girl away. Actually, women are more attracted to guys who set boundaries. You will show her that you have standards, and on the other hand, you will see if you are on the same page. For example, you maybe consider flirting with other people normal, while it is a huge deal breaker for her.
Don’t take anything for granted
Many guys put a lot of energy and effort into getting a girl, but once dating is over and the real relationship begins, they stop trying. No more gifts, fun dates or late night calls. If you do this your girl might feel underappreciated. Once you have found your trans girl, keep the magic alive. Send her messages or take her somewhere special so she knows you still care.
Introduce her to people you care about
Trans girls tend to be insecure. They have met a lot of people who have rejected them because of who they are. Sometimes even their families turn their back on them. If you are in a real loving relationship with a trans woman, introduce her to your friends. That way she will know that you are proud that she is your girl. Don’t hide her away from the rest of the world. She has probably met too many guys who treated her like their own private porn star, so let her know that you are not one of them.